Customs
and TraditionsThailand is understandably famous for its tolerance and
for the sense of hospitality felt by every visitor. However, in order to feel
completely at ease within the country, it is helpful to have an idea of the local
customs. Firstly, the Thai people feel a deep reverence for the Royal family.
It is considered to be in poor taste to joke about the Royal family or to in any
way show a lack of respect for the King. Similarly, serious religious offences
are punishable by law. Take care when greeting the Thai people. It is considered
impolite to gesture using your feet, as this part of the body is thought to be
impure. Accordingly, the head is considered to be the most sacred part of the
body, and therefore it is important to remember never to touch anyone on the head
for example, ruffling the hair of children. But keep in mind, the
Thai people are accustomed to visitors to their country, and are tolerant of our
cultural differences. Small mistakes made during friendly conversation will not
cause offence and the interaction will generally end with a smile. The Thai
are a very welcoming people. Don't hesitate to start a conversation with them!
Although there are many people on Koh Lanta who do not speak English, they will
nonetheless be delighted to speak with you by other means: gestures and smiles
work well, and knowing a few words in Thai will go a long way (consult our Thai
lexicon!)!! You would have to be extremely unlucky to meet someone in a bad mood;
the residents of Koh Lanta are generally very patient and thoughtful, and always
eager to help you. The smile is a big part of their lifestyle. The Thai are always
very happy (either that or they hide their depression very well). Their broad
smiles and good humour dont often slip, even while labouring under a crushing
heat. Its infectious - their children rarely cry, and even you, the tourist,
will not be immune! Here are a few "rules" to keep in mind
If you are invited into someones home, remove your shoes before entering.
Never prop your feet up on the table, it is considered highly disrespectful. Make
sure your feet are not pointed towards someone else as this would cause offence
as well. The Thai consider the head the most noble part of the body,
therefore avoid touching or tapping anyone else on the head even as a friendly
gesture. This applies to touching children on the head, too! It is
counter-productive to lose patience, show exasperation, or get angry when faced
with a misunderstanding or conflict. According to the Thai, "Jai yen",
or "cool heart", will solve all problems. As Southern Thailand
is quite Muslim, show respect by never sunbathing topless or strolling the streets
shirtless. Never criticize or insult the Royal family or Buddha
these offences carry serious consequences. Never raise your voice to
anyone and maintain that smile!! Remove your shoes before entering
a temple. If you wish to kneel before Buddha, make sure your feet are tucked behind
you as they are considered impure. Never point at someone else using
either your finger or your foot instead, motion using your head. |